it's unfair...

the way they treat thier son...i hate it...
yesterday i listened in, because the phone was still on and i heard it all.
how she cursed at him and was so aggressive...
and she even blamed me....
what are you doing?
how can you treat him that way? and expect him to ever respect you?
how can you yell at him that way, when you once called him your baby?
when he came from you, you gave birth to him,
and you yell at him like that...
he is a precious belonging that you should hold dear to your heart,
you helped create him, and you raised him,
you made him out of love, i would really assume
because you and his father are married,
not that have ever been married (yet), but i think you are doing it wrong..
as married you should have a partnership to love your children, forgive them, teach them, and be a good example, not a tag-team workforce to beat him down and his self-esteem.
did it ever cross your mind that he is a unique person?
a person that needs motivation but doesnt have any,
and almost an adult, has no drive to do any schoolwork.
you cannot blame it on him, you should have payed closer attention.
you should have started to exercise him when he was younger,
instead of drowning him with church and sports he doesnt even want to play, gave him some options so he could do the things he wanted to do. because i have observed, that all of the things that he hates, is all of the things that you forced him into or critisized him about. maybe he isnt motivated because you never allowed him to be. you were too busy making him hate everything for him to actually want to do anything.
yes, he is talented, extremely, but you have to let him develop those talents on his own.
yes, he is very very smart, but if you badger him into school, he's going to hate it.
and me? this is not my fault...you have not even a small right to be blaming me. after how long i've been here, i've never once been a bad influence on him. we've been a good influence on eachother! he is not even doing bad, he has alot of good grades, and so do i. now think about that, they were lower before. and so were mine. what does that say to you? we've been good for eachother...i cant believe you would dare say something like that about me...

but i guess you only said it because i thought you couldnt hear you.

you may be well-to-do and have an awesome job, and tons of money to blow on whatever you want, but that doesnt mean you can treat people however you want. i'm glad you're prideful, but take down the ego a few notches. save the reckless menstrual attitude for your money, it doesnt have feelings so it wont turn from you.

i mean, not that you care.