i finaly found it!! i've been searching for years!
thank you Bing.com!! i found it here
but its only the meaning of "Asbury" not Asberry and its only a last name meaning T-T
Last name origins & meanings:
English (West Midlands): habitational name from Astbury in Cheshire, named from Old English ēast ‘east’ + byrig, dative of burh ‘manor’, ‘fortified place’.
English (West Midlands): from either of two places, in Oxfordshire and Devon, named Ashbury, from Old English æsc ‘ash tree’ + byrig.
then i found this for a first name meaning...but it says its for a boys name!!
there is no girls name of Asberry!
i have a stupid name...